Wisdom Of The Ancients ~ Expectations

 

(The following was channeled through Anita from her Teachers....)  

Expectations

Question 

We often expect much from those in our lives.  

 

Why is it that we often feel let down?

 

Answer

- Expectations are a projection of what you what to see and accomplish within yourself. 

The twist here is that universal law states that you can only receive from others what you willing to give yourself first.

When you come into relationships with fixed expectations, you come wanting to control the outcome.

You have expectations within the relationship because of your wanting the other person

to love you more than you are loving yourself to be more generous than you currently are with yourself.  

The bottom line is, you are looking to be understood better than you can understand yourself.

Often people set themselves up for failure because they are looking outside for what they desire to experience within themselves.  

You must first give away what you desire to receive. 

 

Start by giving that what you desire to yourself first. 

 

Treat yourself as you would your best friend. 

Your lover. 

Give to yourself the unconditional love  

you so desire to have others give to you.  

  

Love, true love, starts within. 

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